As a woman, it can be a stressful time when you are seeing a man, but you don’t know how he is feeling about you. There are, however, luckily tell-tale signs that he is secretly in love with you.
Men often don’t wear their hearts on their sleeves and can be very secretive about their real feelings for you. This is why it is important that you look at the signs that suggest he secretly loves you and apply them to your relationship to see if they are relevant.
Making time for you
Sometimes people can be really busy with work or their personal lives. So their social life naturally suffers. Also, if he is finding it hard to find time to socialize with people due to having such a busy workload, but he still makes time for you, this can be a sure sign that he has strong feelings for you as he is putting you first.
Looking happy
If your man looks happy when he is with you, he will smile more and be more upbeat than he is when he is with other people. This is a sure sign that he has feelings for you, and this shouldn’t be ignored. If you are making him feel happy, then there must be feelings there.
Stick to his word
It can be very easy to make a promise to somebody and have no intentions of keeping it. However, if he keeps making promises to you and always sticks by them, then this can be a sign that he has feelings for you and doesn’t want to let you down.
A lot of men, especially in the early days, will promise you the world and never deliver. This is because they want to impress you but might not have the means to follow through on their promises. If your man is making you promises and keeping them, he is surely a keeper because he’s falling for you.
Natural feelings
If he is very relaxed with you and flirting comes naturally to him when it comes to you, this is a sign that he is catching feelings for you. When you become fully relaxed and natural around a person, this is usually because you like them and have gotten to know them very well.
Remembering what you say
If he is a clear listener and can remember the small details of things that you have said or told him, then he is a keeper. In fact, people only pay full attention to the things that they are told if they greatly care for this person. Therefore, if he is remembering the things that you say, whether significant or not, then he is trying to get to know you better and probably likes you.
From your favorite movie to what helps you when you are feeling sad if the guy is in tune with you and your memories and desires, then he could be really falling for you because this is a sign that he is trying to learn about and get to know you better.
Defensive of you
If your man defends your name and always jumps to defend you from people, then this means he definitely has feelings for you. Also, if he intentionally puts himself in a confrontational situation in order to defend you, this is a sign that he has fallen for you, as he wouldn’t defend just anybody.
When a man defends your name, he is also defending your honor. But he will only do this if he cares about you greatly and obviously likes you very much.
Stays in touch
If he ensures that he maintains a conversation with you, whether in person or on social media, this is a sign that he likes you and wants to speak to you even when he isn’t with you. This shows that you are in his thoughts and are very important to him.
A lot of men are lacking when it comes to social media, so they will often go quiet when it comes to communication methods. Thus, if he is ensuring that he stays in regular contact with you throughout the day, this is because he wants to know how you are and how you are doing, so he wants to regularly check in with you.
Friends know about you
If his friends know all about you, then he is definitely serious about his feelings and commitment to you. Often, a man will keep his relationship a secret from his friends until he knows he is serious about her. That is because he wants to only introduce somebody that he is serious about.
Likes to be close
If your man likes physical contact and likes to consistently be close to you, this is a sign that he is secretly in love with you. This is important to note as people crave human contact with people that they have strong or intense feelings for; this can be through hand-holding, kissing, or more intimate contact.
If your man is close to you and wants physical contact with you in public places, this shows that he isn’t afraid of his feelings for you and, if anything, wants to show you off. Men don’t often like to show affection in public as it is considered to be emasculating; however, men who do like to are usually doing so as they feel happy and proud of who they are with.
Gut feeling
The last way that you can tell if a man is secretly in love with you is by taking a look at the situation and thinking about how you are feeling about it. If you think he might be falling for you, then the chances are that you are right. And so it is important that you trust your gut in this instance. Trusting your gut feelings often pays off and is a great way to use your initiative and look at the signs around you to figure out how your man is feeling.
